2
Corinthians 10:12 For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare
ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by
themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not
wise.
Compare –
estimate, measure, or note the similarity or dissimilarity
between
Measure –
judge someone or something by comparison with a standard
When we
compare ourselves among ourselves, we use someone else as the “standard” to measure
ourselves and what we’re doing ..., rather than seeking to know how God views us
and the matter we’re dealing with. Yet,
only God’s judgment matters.
By our own
minds, we could put ourselves into bondage trying to meet a standard that God
didn’t set for us, or we could think we’re “fine” when, in fact, we’re not. We have to turn to God and trust Him to show
us His view of us and what we’re doing. Am I
doing what God wants me to do? This is the standard for each of us.
2
Corinthians 10: Lord. 18 For not he that commendeth himself is approved, but
whom the Lord commendeth.
A few months
ago when I retired, thoughts came telling me that I hadn’t saved as much money
for retirement as other people had saved.
When I turned to God with this thought, one of the scriptures I was reminded of was 2 Corinthians 10:12. While looking at this verse, I had an
understanding that I don’t know if what other people have saved will be enough
for me, or whether it would be more than what I need. God knows exactly what my needs are …. now
and in the future. And He is able to provide my
needs. He may choose to have me get another job, or not. But, in some way, He will meet my
needs. Phillipians 4: 19 But my God shall supply all your need
according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. And now, three months
later, I look back and rejoice at the way God continues to abundantly provide
everything I need. It makes no difference what other people have done to
prepare for retirement, for God leads me and provides for me.
Another
example ... this morning a thought came telling me that I wasn’t sending as many
messages as others. When I turned to God
with this thought, I heard “Have you shared everything you’ve been given?” Rather than considering what anyone else does, I need to be faithful
to share what I’ve been given.
The
temptation to compare ourselves among ourselves comes as we deal with various
things. But we're warned that it is not
wise to go this way.