Eph. 4:29 ... Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
Exhortation: Joan Boney ... apostle/prophet
Is that which you are about to speak going to "minister grace" to the hearer?
Grace is a feeling of gratitude to God.
Often I am stopped from speaking when I consider what my words might do.
Will my words minister grace to the hearer ... Is that which I am about to speak going to cause the hearer to glorify God in some way?
This stops me from speaking a great many things.