Pam Padgett ... teacher
        
  Matthew 1:18 Now the birth of Jesus Christ was 
on this wise: When as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph, before 
they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Ghost. 19 Then 
Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not willing to make her a 
public example, was minded to put her away privily. 
    
  Joseph was a just man, wanting to do what 
was right and upright in the sight of God.  Joseph considered quietly 
putting Mary away from him.  But as he considered what to do, God sent an
 angel to Joseph in a dream telling him about the son Mary would have 
and instructing Joseph in what to do .... 
    Matthew 1:20
 But while he thought on these things, behold, the angel of the Lord 
appeared unto him in a dream, saying, Joseph, thou son of David, fear 
not to take unto thee Mary thy wife: for that which is conceived in her 
is of the Holy Ghost. 21 And she shall bring forth a son, and thou shalt
 call his name Jesus: for he shall save his people from their sins. 22 
Now all this was done, that it might be fulfilled which was spoken of 
the Lord by the prophet, saying, 23 Behold, a virgin shall be with 
child, and shall bring forth a son, and they shall call his name 
Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, God with us. 
      
    Joseph was obedient to what he was told to do by the angel of the Lord ... 
    Matthew 1:24
 Then Joseph being raised from sleep did as the angel of the Lord had 
bidden him, and took unto him his wife: 25 And knew her not till she had
 brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name Jesus.
  
It stood out to me that Joseph pondered the
 path of his feet, desiring to do what was right in the sight of God, 
and allowing God to establish what he should do.  Once God's will was established for Joseph, he went in that way.  
Proverbs 4:26 Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established.
      
    Our own ideas can seem so 
"right" to us.  But the only thing that is important is what God wants us 
to do, to turn to God and wait for Him to establish the way we are to 
go.  
  
It takes trust in God to do this, trusting that He will show us His will
 in a way that we will understand, and waiting until this is done.  Once
 we believe we have heard God's will in the situation (asking God to 
confirm we have heard from the Holy Spirit, not another spirit, if we're not sure), we then move forward in the 
way we are shown.    
Psalm 37:5 Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him; and he shall
 bring it to pass.