A few days ago, the subject of a woman getting a manicure came up and I remembered something Howard said to me.  His daughter was getting a manicure and Howard said it was so important to a woman to get a manicure.

I was feeling a little bad about myself, thinking I just wasn't feminine enough for I would not want to get a manicure.

Pam said, "What is important is to be a godly woman ..."

I rejoiced for that is true.  I want to be a godly woman and I think I am a godly woman because I have a fear of the Lord ...  I don't want to be a worldly "feminine" woman.

It settled everything for me.