Book: Dealing With Destructive Thoughts
Chapter 8
Joan Boney ... apostle/prophet
When we
“dread”
something, it is likely a sign that we have gotten ourselves into an
appointment or plan that is not of God. Dread is a very important
matter which must be dealt with each time it surfaces.
To dread means: uneasiness in face of something ahead
It is so very important to commit the issue to God in prayer when we dread something that lies ahead.
Sometimes we are going in a wrong way and God will lead us to make changes to completely remove the planned event.
We
have to be willing to change. Even when we have given our word to
someone, if we dread that which lies ahead, we might need to get out of
the situation.
Two scriptural examples are as follows.
Prov. 6:1-5
... My son, if thou be surety for thy friend, if thou hast stricken thy
hand with a stranger, Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou
art taken with the words of thy mouth. Do this now, my son, and deliver
thyself, when thou art come into the hand of thy friend; go, humble
thyself, and make sure thy friend. Give not sleep to thine eyes, nor
slumber to thine eyelids. Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the
hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.
Mt. 14:1-10
... At that time Herod the tetrarch heard of the fame of Jesus, And
said unto his servants, This is John the Baptist; he is risen from the
dead; and therefore mighty works do shew forth themselves in him. For
Herod had laid hold on John, and bound him, and put him in prison for
Herodias’ sake, his brother Philip’s wife. For John said unto him, It is
not lawful for thee to have her. And when he would have put him to
death, he feared the multitude, because they counted him as a prophet.
But when Herod’s birthday was kept, the daughter of Herodias danced
before them, and pleased Herod. Whereupon he promised with an oath to
give her whatsoever she would ask. And she, being before instructed of
her mother, said, Give me here John Baptist’s head in a charger. And the
king was sorry: nevertheless for the oath’s sake, and them which sat
with him at meat, he commanded it to be given her. And he sent, and
beheaded John in the prison.
Herod didn't want to behead John the Baptist but
"for the oath's sake" and also to save face in front of his “friends”, he did behead John the Baptist.
How much better for him had he just backed down from his oath, from his own word, and refused to do this evil.
There are times it is better to cancel the dreaded meeting or event when possible.
Only through asking God, can we be assured in what we should do in such cases
Here is an example I had many years ago of "dread" ...
I
had closed my business in Dallas because I was persuaded I was to go
into the ministry. But I had nowhere to go. For six-months I lived off
the money from the sale of the business merchandise. I stayed at my
apartment and read Bible during this time.
A job
opened at Christ for the Nations school in Dallas. I prayed, of course,
and seriously considered the job. It was Dean of Women at the college.
But I found I just didn't want to go there.
(dread)
At one point the thought came,
"You just don't want to be that far away from Neiman-Marcus (a department store)" That was so silly. I hardly ever went to Neiman’s and rarely purchased anything there.
I knew the devil was trying to get me to take that job.
I declined the job and continued staying at home with no prospects for
employment but I did have money from my business and had no lack.
About a month later,
God awoke me in the night with what I believe to have been the loud
voice (like a trumpet sounding) of an angel with the words:
Hartford, Seattle, KWJS ... This caused me to go on radio and within a week of hearing this word I was broadcasting exhortations on radio station
KWJS. Within the year, I was on radio from east coast to west coast of USA.
This was the plan of God for me and not Christ for the Nations where the dread was.
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Here
is a wonderful example of working through dread by turning to God.
This is a report from Pam Padgett, in our little church group.
Pam says ...
Many years ago when I first started going to college, God showed Himself strong on my behalf.
My
older sister had been at college two years when I started attending the
same school. She dated a man who was a member of a fraternity, and had
become a member of the fraternity's "women's auxiliary", assisting with
fraternity social functions. She was very excited for me to join the
social circles she was in, and especially wanted me to meet members of
the fraternity.
The first week of school my
sister invited me to go to a student bar where many of the fraternity
guys gathered on Thursday nights. I went, but found what was going on
there to be so bad (lewdness, drunkenness) that I was unable to stay and
I walked back to the dormitory.
A week or so later
my sister asked if I'd go to an outdoor luau with one of the freshmen
pledges at the fraternity. The luau site was about 20 miles away near a
river, and there would be a campfire. The setting was very appealing
to me, plus I was excited about having a date, and I agreed to go.
Then, a few days before the luau,
my sister told me that arrangements had been made for one of the other
fraternity guys to take me to the luau because my date would be spending
the day at the luau site building a hut for us ...
a young man I had never even met was building a hut "for us"!
Suddenly
the reality of this luau became very clear to me. This was not going
to be people sitting around a campfire roasting marshmallows. The
lewdness and drunkenness I had seen at the student bar was probably mild
compared to what would be going on at this luau ... and I wouldn't be
able to walk home.
I told my sister that I couldn't go along with this
and did not want to go, but she kept insisting that it was too late for
me to back out, that it was too late for this guy to find another date.
I turned very strongly to God, asking Him to
somehow get me out of this situation. There seemed no way out. At one
point I asked God to let me have appendicitis, preferring to be in a
hospital having surgery than to go to this luau.
The morning of the luau I woke up and checked to see if I might have any pain that would indicate appendicitis, and was disappointed that I felt fine.
I kept praying for God to somehow work this out. Time was really running out!
When I looked outside, it was raining a little, but not much. However, the rain became heavier and heavier as the day went on.
Around
2 pm I received a call from the fraternity guy who planned to take me
to the luau site. He told me how sorry he was to have to tell me this,
but the luau had to be cancelled. The luau site had been totally
flooded, washing away all the huts that had been built, which would
include the hut my date had built for us.
He told me
how long the luau had been held at this same site (many years) and,
although there had been rain at times in the past, nothing like this had
ever happened before, flooding and causing the luau to be cancelled.
I rejoiced, knowing that God had delivered me.
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Another example:
I was watching the Ken Burns TV series on
The Civil War (1860-65 in USA).
As I watched the mistreatment of slaves I was so upset and found myself being pulled deeper into this conflict
until I was reminded of the following scriptures which set me in the way of God and removed me from the "good" (and bad) of this world.
Jn. 18:36 ... Jesus said
... My kingdom is not of this world: if My kingdom were of this world,
then would My servants fight, that I should not be delivered to the
Jews: but now is My kingdom not from hence.
I Cor. 7:20-22
... Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. Art
thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made
free, use it rather. For he that is called in the Lord, being a
servant, is the Lord’s freeman: likewise also he that is called, being
free, is Christ’s servant.
By these two scriptures, I
knew that I was not to involve myself in the strife and worldly
disputes of things like The Civil War. ...even when those things are
unfair and terrible, for the kingdom of God is not of this world.
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We, like those who have gone before us, look for a new heavens and a new earth wherein dwelleth righteousness.
(II Peter 3)
We will never be able to make this present world righteousness no matter what we do.
And John said:
And we know that we are of God, and the whole world lieth in wickedness I Jn. 5:19
And Paul said this world would not get better but worse.
II Tim. 3:13-17
... But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and
being deceived. But continue thou in the things which thou hast
learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned
them;
And that from a child thou hast
known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto
salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.
All
scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for
doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good
works.
II Peter 3:13-14
... Nevertheless we, according to HIS promise, look for new heavens and
a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness. Wherefore, beloved, seeing
that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of HIM
in peace, without spot, and blameless.
So by this, I freed myself from my own emotions and preferences and from the campaigns of worldly men who think they do good.
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BOOK: Dealing With Destructive Thoughts
Chapter 8
Joan Boney
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