When we understand God choose us and saved us without our being worthy of salvation, we are grateful to God.
But many church goers are not born again and they put themselves into the church group "by their own will." When
that happens they think by their own will power they chose God and they
reason since they chose God other people can do the same. They don't
realize they are not of God but their own salvation is of themselves.
Jude vv. 17-19
But, beloved, remember ye the words which were spoken before of the
apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ; How that they told you there should
be mockers (copiers) in the last time, who should walk after their own ungodly lusts. These be they who separate themselves, sensual, having not the Spirit.
These church goers are often hard, ridged, even mean toward those who are not church goers.
They lack charity.
Charity
is born of our knowing that we didn't deserve salvation and that it was
just by the will of God that we are born of HIS Spirit and are HIS
children.
I Corinthians 13
2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
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Charity does not approve sin. Charity speaks truth of God.
But charity also understands salvation is of God and of ourselves we can't be saved.
When God reveals HIMSELF to us and opens our understanding to truth, we are born again.
Salvation is of God and not of our own will.
Therefore
we can be kind along with sharing the truth from God. And this is
charity. For charity understands salvation is by the will of God and
there is nothing man can do to be saved it is simply the will of God
that any of us are born again and saved.
God gave us understanding and then we agreed with God.
Ephesians 1:11-13
In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated
according to the purpose of HIM who worketh all things after the counsel
of HIS own will: That we should be to the praise of HIS glory, who
first trusted in Christ. In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
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