Here is something the Holy Spirit showed me.
"When a person tries to help another person and there is no need for help, that person is acting as a busybody."
Scriptures warning us about being a busybody.
I Peter 4 ...
14
If ye be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are ye; for the
spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you:on their part he is evil
spoken of, but on your part he is glorified.
15 But let none of you suffer as a murderer, or as a thief, or as an evildoer, or as a busybody in other men's matters.
(If
you offer help and the person declines and you become offended, you are
suffering but not for doing right. You are suffering, offended,
because you were meddling in an other person's business where the person had no need. And you are suffering for doing wrong ... I Peter 2:20 NIV)
I Peter 2:20 ... NIV ... 20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it?
I Peter 4
16 Yet if any man suffer as a Christian, let him not be ashamed; but let him glorify God on this behalf.