James 3
6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
Sometimes a person "peeves" us. But not wanting to hurt that person we learn to call on God to stop us from saying "that" which we want to say. And when I pray that, God always stops me.
James 1:26 If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man's religion is vain.
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